Movember part 3: Redtube - Masterbation - Boil bursting

 Lovely idea from my workshop at Featherstone Rovers. Always be ahead of the game.

RedTube is an age restricted site.  Once over 18, it helps increase longevity in men.

The Journal of Psychology & Human Sexuality, Volume 14, Numbers 2/3 2002, said in its publication, Masturbation as a Means of Achieving Sexual Health.

‘A 2002 report from a large British population of men said researchers found a 50 percent reduction in overall mortality in the group of men who said they had the most orgasms. Having regular orgasms can increase your life span. Every time you reach orgasm, the hormone DHEA increases in response to sexual excitement and orgasm. DHEA can boost your immune system, improve cognition, keep skin healthy, and even work as an antidepressant. Therefore, the added health benefit is that you will feel-and look-younger, longer.’

In Movember part 2, I talked about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Our biological or Somatic needs; Breathing, Drinking, Eating, Excreting, Sleeping and Sex. Our somatic needs are pure energy over which we have no control. If these basic needs are not met, the body is unable to function sufficiently to consider any other needs. We will kill to meet these needs. This is base chakra stuff.

With our biological needs met (or perceived to be), safety needs; security, home, employment, finance, will dominate. Anything that makes us feel unsafe, like loosing a job, a partner, a death in the family, will activate our primal, safety and somatic needs. Our base and first chakras will be out of balance, our focus turns inwards. We become a boil waiting to burst. Maslow describes these first two levels as our Survival Needs.

We return to these needs at moments of uncertainty and stress. To me it feels like a boil needing to explode with only one way to achieve that, an orgasm.

Mans failure to orgasm creates frustration which can easily lead to: anger, violence, death and destruction on a worldwide scale. Domestic violence and sexual abuse by men are at pandemic levels. Men need help, not condemning, as they have no control over their somatic needs.

Here is an amusing tale, taken from a blog I wrote in March 2018. A Welsh hymn, for Saint David’s day:

Bread of Heaven, bread of heaven, feed me till I want no more.

In ancient history the men (Boys 16-24) were sent into battle first. Best chance of winning.  However, after saying goodbye to their wife’s and girlfriends they also needed to visit the ‘Spiritual Ones’ the elders of the tribe to receive priming for battle. Simple! They made them orgasm whilst singing ‘bread of heaven, bread of heaven, feed me till I want no more. I have heard this standing on the pitch at the old, Cardiff Arms Park. I still shiver. They went into battle energised by the elders. On returning from battle the ‘Men’ had to visit the elders again.  This time to let of steam, to de-compress before returning to their wife’s and girlfriends, the Lion calmed and ready for love

That energy needs calming or the boil will explode.

What I am trying to say is sex and love are not the same. I had been conditioned to believe they were by my parents, teachers, religion and the media. My conditioning was shattered upon reading M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Travelled. In particular the chapter entitled, ‘The myth of romantic love’. Obtaining freedom from my social conditioning would take many years but the seeds, now germinated, would continue to grow.

I sing, ‘bread of heaven’ to myself on a regular basis. Its free, its fun and the endorphin hit comes from your body’s own morphine supply, but most of all…

It soothes and helps boils burst naturally. An orgasm reduces inflammation throughout the body

Maslow says our sex drive is a basic human need, it is the body’s natural endorphin provider, pleasure giver and source of your life force energy.  This is not about love and family, it’s about you and your base chakra.

And the point I am making is:

Self-pleasure (boil bursting) is only two clicks away on redtube.

Enjoy

Colin